(story told in Genesis 24-31)
Laban first appears when Abraham’s servant travels to find a wife for Isaac. The servant meets Rebekah, Laban’s sister, at a well. When the servant explains that God led him there, Laban welcomes him warmly and agrees to the marriage, showing early hospitality and respect for God’s blessing. But later, Laban’s actions reveal a more self-serving side of his character.
Years later, Jacob, Rebekah’s son, arrives at Laban’s home after fleeing from his brother Esau. Laban greets him as family, and Jacob soon falls in love with Laban’s younger daughter, Rachel. Jacob agrees to work seven years for her hand in marriage. However, on the wedding night, Laban deceives him by giving him his older daughter, Leah, instead. To marry Rachel as well, Jacob must work another seven years. Laban’s trick shows his greed and willingness to use others for his own advantage.
Even after Jacob’s marriages, Laban continues to take advantage of him. He repeatedly changes Jacob’s wages and tries to control his success. Yet God protects Jacob and blesses him despite Laban’s schemes. Jacob’s flocks grow strong, while Laban’s weaken, revealing God’s favor.
Eventually, Jacob decides to leave with his family and flocks. When Laban discovers this, he pursues Jacob in anger. But God warns Laban in a dream not to harm him. When they meet, Laban softens, and they make a peaceful covenant before parting ways.
Laban’s story reminds us how greed and manipulation can strain relationships, but also how God’s protection and justice prevail. Even when others act unfairly, God’s hand ensures His promises are fulfilled.