(story told in Genesis 29-50)
Reuben was the firstborn son of Jacob and Leah, making him the oldest of twelve brothers. As the firstborn, he was expected to be a leader and inherit special blessings from his father. Reuben’s early life showed moments of both care and weakness, revealing the struggles of someone trying to do right but often falling short.
One of Reuben’s most honorable moments came when his brothers plotted to kill Joseph. Jealous of Joseph’s colorful coat and his dreams, they wanted to get rid of him. Reuben tried to protect his younger brother by suggesting they throw Joseph into a pit instead of killing him. He secretly planned to rescue Joseph later, but before he could, the others sold Joseph to traders. When Reuben returned and found the pit empty, he was heartbroken.
Despite this good intention, Reuben made serious mistakes too. He dishonored his father by sleeping with Bilhah, one of Jacob’s wives. This act deeply offended Jacob and later cost Reuben his place as firstborn in the family blessing. His leadership role was taken away and given to others.
Even so, Reuben continued to show concern for his family. Years later, when the brothers went to Egypt and faced Joseph—though they didn’t recognize him—Reuben reminded them of their guilt for what they had done. He showed a sense of responsibility and regret for his past actions.
Reuben’s story reminds us that even when we fail, the desire to make things right still matters. Though he lost his birthright, Reuben’s efforts to protect others and acknowledge his wrongs show the power of conscience and the hope of redemption.